I'm currently in the processes of filing a claim with Paypal for this transaction. comicbookartistboi was selling his Soo Ri FS, I inquired about the layaway plans out of interest and he took that to meaning I was definitely interested in buying and was going to buy regardless. He added me on MSN and I was basically forced into the sale, he wouldn't take no for an answer and me being a stupid push over and not wanting to upset anyone, because he kept going on about flakey buyers and how he hated them, I sent a $50 deposit plus $1.90 for paypal fees. I just recently (Aug 7th) sent $400 + another $20 for paypal fees for that transaction. He bought Elfdoll Red from Luts with that money. The thing is, I couldn't and can't afford him, I was interested but the plan didn't suit me and I just wanted to say NO (well, I did, but I guess I wasn't forcefull enough) and be done with it, but I felt threatened if I said no to him because of the way he used his words. So I've basically sent $477 to him already, with a further $350+shipping+paypal fees to come that I can't afford.... When he was selling his Tender Bee-A he also tried forcing me into buying her, and got very moody when I kept refusing, he wanted me to trade my Sooah for his Tender Bee-A, but I don't even like Tender Bee-A and kept telling him so and he didn't like the fact I said no to him. He has discussions with me on MSN and everytime he does he always mentions leaving bad feedback and how my name will be known all over the board if I back out of the sale. He then goes on to saying how nice I am and how we're friends...I wouldn't eactly call that friendship. I did have one way of getting out of the sale POSSIBLY (though it wasn't definite that I could have got out of it without bad feedback anyway). I was promised a Pirate outfit as an extra for my Full Set Soo Ri if I made payments on time, I sent my the next payment of $400+$20 for Paypal fees a day early, and it wasn't until I told him "I've sent payment early" that he mentioned he'd sold the pirate outfit to someone else at a meetup and "forgot" it was part of our deal (which, is unprofessional) I was going to back out of the sale, since he was changing terms and I didn't want to go through with this transaction as I felt VERY uncomfortable, but he said this: "My friend told me to wait until AFTER you sent the next payment to tell you about the outfit and to tell you that the money is non-refundable if you don't want to carry on." And the thing that bothered me was? He did wait to tell me AFTER I sent my payment, which makes me think he was going to take his friends advice, so I just agreed that it was fine because I didn't want to lose $471.90 of my money AND the doll and I basically though if I said no, that he would have just said "tough" and kept my money. He offered to suede Soo Ri instead and I just said fine, though I would have rather have had the outfit since that was part of the original deal, and it was a cute outfit, and I like piratey stuff, since I can suede the dolls myself anyway and would rather suede my dolls anyway. I don't want any of his leather looking outfits, I wanted the pirate outfit we agreed apon... Now everytime I have a normal discussion with him, I always hear about bad feedback and what-not, a few weeks before sending the $400 he kept telling me how upset and angry he'd be if I didn't make payment on time or if I changed my mind, because he wanted to order Elfdoll Red from Luts on August 7th so he could get a free NaNuRi head to practise on, if I was delayed or changed my mind, he'd be "very upset and angry " and yes, the smiley face was included.... Also, I got a refund from anneguish, as soon as comicbookartistboi found out I got my money back, he started saying I can buy an extra outfit from him for my Soo Ri, he didn't even SUGGEST it, he made it sound like I had too, when I told him no he said: "Well, I just thought that because you got your money back for that doll that you could afford an outfit from me" I told him I couldn't and got a "oh.." reply, when I explained that the money was needed for personal things such as bills and what-not, and I even APOLOGIZED he didn't reply. He gets upset too easily if he doesn't get his own way and this is why I feel forced into the transaction. And I'm sorry, but other transactions with people have got nothing to do with him, yes I got my money back, but how I spend that money is up to me, not him. I hate flakey buyers, but I really don't feel anyone should be bullied into a sale, as much as I love Soo Ri, I couldn't afford him. So this is a warning, if you enquire about any sale or even compliment him on something he will try forcing you into buying, I was stupid and gave in because I'm a pushover and didn't want to upset anyone and have my rep ruined, but I don't think I should let people push me around anymore. I've filed with Paypal to hopefully get most of my money back, since he changed the terms of the sale.