I hate to start a paging thread but it has been too long. HighPriestessIce and I decided on doing a swap many, many months ago -- I believe it was more than 6 months ago. I finished my end of the swap (a scarf) the day we decided to swap, and said I would send it out when she was finished with hers as well. She did not finish her end of the swap until last month (a vest). While I was patient with that, she still has not sent the swap and I had to continuously ask her about her progress and possibility to ship it. I have PMed her every now and then this entire time, asking when she would be done and when she would send it. I even offered to drop the swap if she could not manage to make it, but she said she could. I also purchased an accessory off of her, which she said she would send with the swap item. Since it was taking so long for her to do the swap, I asked her to just send the accessory itself (this was early May), and she said she would send both accessory and vest. Neither were sent. I am now asking her to send the vest she said she completed. She claimed to have sent it out the 7th of this month, but I have not received it. I hate to be a doubter, but I do not believe she has sent it, so I am setting up this paging. I have been extremely patient with her this entire time, but I think 6-8 months is a long enough time to be patient.