I don't know about the other split members but I am getting very uncomfortable with the long wait so I have to take the initiative. Mephistol, I apologize if I seem impatient as I'm pressed for time and you've been communicative until the last week but I believe this has gone for too long. Mephistol is the host for several Soom splits: Glot/Glati x2, Heliot and the Amber split I'm currently participating. 14-10-2009 - She sent mass PM saying Amber is home 1 week later - I PMed her asking for an update on shipping info and asked her to provide a shipping quote --> this should have been her responsibility as GO leader =/ 22-10-09 - Her response: - 7 hrs later another PM - she needed my shipping address - then another PM later asking me what my split parts were.. 29-10-2009 - [2 weeks since Amber arrived] I sent a PM asking about when shipping was and that I needed a shipping quote 1-11-2009 - Her response: 4-11-2009 - I sent her a PM saying that since it has already taken too long, I wanted a priority shipping quote too in addition to the regular shipping quote. Last response I receive was on 1/11/09. 5-11-2009 - [3 weeks since Amber arrived] At this point I was getting desperate as I'll be going on holiday and needed things settle quickly before then as international shipping will take some time. I informed her of this and reminded her that it has been ~23 days since Amber arrived at her place. Since there has not been any shipping quotes yet, I added to say that I wanted tracking and insurance too. I asked for the quote to be sent within the week and if possible for my parts to be shipped as well. I also told her that I would be forced to open a problem transaction if this went on for much longer. Same day response: 6-11-2009 - Glot/Glati delivery notice 9-11-2009 - She sent me a shipping quote for priority mail 4 days after, not 'tomorrow' but still I thanked her for the update 13-11-2009 - I sent a PM asking if she managed to ship it out yet - PM not read - no response 17-11-2009 - Over 1 week after shipping quote - sent another PM saying if I don't have a reply within 48 hours I'll open a problem transaction thread - PM not read - no response 20-11-2009 - Paging thread opened. Her last log-in was on 16-11-2009. It has been 38 days since Amber arrived at her place and there hasn't been any word on shipping yet. I understand that this thread could probably be premature because of Glot/Glati's arrival added into the mix but making us wait for over a month? To me this has kicked aside courtesy and bearing on her responsibilities as a GO leader.