Appropriate action is being taken to resolve this problem, I feel this is no longer necessary. --- *SIGH* I really hate to do this, but I am at the end of my patience with the bit of unprofessional ism that went on here. In early october, (around the 9th -11th) I had talked to gretch110 about buying her LIMITED EDITION ELF AIDA. I told her I didnt need a lay-away, and asked her if she would accept a payment, via bill pay. Which she did, I sent her a check for 1100$ USD It took about four days to get there, and communication up until then was fantastic, and she by all means, a sweet girl. I hate to do this because it might ruin a budding friendship. . . But I feel I have to take some action. Well, I was told the doll was shipped and I should recieve him on a monday, she shipped on friday, I was surprised because the fast shipment method she used. Monday's came and went, and I contacted her a few times, responses were few and far apart. and here is what happened. My check still had my old CA address on it, and the doll arrived at the post office in california where I used to live, no big deal right? HUGE DEAL. I do not get along with my mother, and she has refused to help me in any way. It seems as soon as we figured out what happened, Gretch110 went into hiding, she agreed to reimburse me for shipping, (About 17$) and that was the end of it from her and said she'd let me know if the doll ever ended up at her house.. now, this would be no problem if I had a tracking number to go by, but I never got one of those. So I feel like my Aida is stuck in a limbo some where. I would like Gretch110 to take responsibility and find out where the doll is. I'm not even sure if he is at that post office any more, and for all I know he could be at her house, and she could have 1100$ and her doll back. Personally, Id like to have the doll. D:. It's almost november now, and I would LOVE for this to be resolved, or with some other kind of update instead of.. "I'll let you know." I realize this was an accident, but I feel it is a pitiful accident on the sellers behalf, I gave her my new address SEVERAL times, in fact I think I told her my address on the check would NOT be the same as my shipping address. But because she was in a hurry, this huge mess has happened. I am going to try and get back to the post office again in the morning, and see if they can give me any news. ... Gretch110, I am paging you here before I take further action. NAITOMEADOLL THE NIGHT MARE DOLL EDIT: I got a reply almost fourty minutes after posting this page. okay here is the tracking # 2503 8555 7490 7762 9484 It says they attempted to deliver but I'm assuming it hasn't been claimed yet since it doesn't say delivered. Since it is Sunday and I'm at work I have no way of figuring out were Aida is right now, I would love to but sadly the post office is closed. I know that for unclaimed mail it takes about a week before they send it back so the soonest I will see him should be mid week this week. They attempted to deliver him on Monday and if I had known she wasn't going to pick him up then I could have called the post office early last week and got him going to you sooner. However if that is the case and he is sent back to me then I will have to ask for the shipping refund back. The whole purpose of me refunding that money was because you originally told me your mom would ship him back to you, now your saying she's in Hawaii. I'm a little afraid that I've made a bigger mistake then just shipping him to the wrong address right now and am a little confused at the way your attacking me since I've gone above and beyond to try and fix this. I'm deeply sorry that you and your mom have a rocky relationship and that I've sent him to the wrong address and in doing so caused more strife but she should at least be able to tell you if he's there or not. As for a refund I wouldn't be able to issue you one until Aida show back up to my house since technically it's still a postal issue and that's what the insurance is for. I know that your wanting Aida very much so I would hate that you might not get him because of this. Again I am sorry about all this and will still keep trying to resolve it. I know that your worried about not getting him but in the year I've been selling BJD stuff I've never once been dishonest with any of my buyers (or sellers). I've got a perfect track record on all my feedback and have even sold several dolls. I've never ever scammed anyone out of money and I don't intend to start now. So please don't think that this was intentional, it was an accident. Like I said before that day was extremely hectic between my best friend moving in my god daughter coming over and getting sick and then going to the er then rushing back to make sure I shipped Aida out I got a little overwhelmed and I'm sorry. If you have any other questions or anything let me know... I will try and call the post office in the morning and see when they will be sending Aida back to me. Unfortunately I have to work 12 hours tonight so I won't get off until 3am my time so I may not be able to call the post office as soon as they open, but I will call tomorrow. Also if you could please just go ahead and email me instead of pm me on DoA. Your not accepting pm's on DoA and it's frustrating to get this all typed out and not be able to send it. EDIT: with my reply. Hi, you have been well aware that my PM's have been down for a good long time, I can send them but not really recieve them. So I turned the feature off. I will refund you for shipping AFTER I get Aida, because honestly, I would rather have the doll than a refund. I'm not trying to attack, I'm trying to get your attention. And I feel that if you have to log onto DOA you have time to write me as well. Can I ask why you didn't give me the tracking number in the first place? I thought my mom would ship him to me. Being as it was a big package, but she refused. I don't think you have gone "above and beyond" to try and correct this. If it were the case then it would have never have happened, I understand life is busy. I just want you to keep in touch, if you log onto doa. Then you have time to write an email. I am going to contact the post office as well, and if I get ahold of them before you do. I will have Aida shipped back to you and then you can re-send him to me. Unless they can forward him directly to me with out charge. Again, you are a very sweet girl, it only takes one bad business transaction to ruin alot of things, the problem transaction thread will be deleted as soon as Aida arrives on my doorstep. I will refund you for shipping when he arrives and leave neutral feedback. To me it was alot of money to just wait around for, if you know what I mean. You can also contact me on AIM at BonjourHoney1 NAITOMEADOLL The nightmare doll I do apologize if I sound harsh to her, but I feel in a business transaction concerning so much money things should be dealt with accordingly, and especially if there are several ways to get a hold of me, then there really is no excuse, especially if one has time to surf- DOA..