So you've been scouring the distant lands of the 2nd hand marketplace diligently. Searching for that one true love of a limited edition/sold out/one of a kind custom-that-takes-your-interest bjd/accessory/clothes. Suddenly your heart stops... *Queue the choir of angels singing* It's: a) it's super cheap for what it is & you've been saving your pennies and got the funds b) it has just been put up (and your probs the 1st one to have seen it) c) it's basically what you've been searching for Unfortunately as you contact the seller SOME HAS BEATEN YOU TO IT! It's sold & you know you will most likely never find that item again. You hit the replay button on how you could've gotten it. a) 'thinking about it' and wanting to check the post later, b) you spent too long thinking about how you finally found it, what you wanna do with it c) whatever possibilities etc. The opportunity has slipped through your fingers! ***Hence the discussion is: for those who use the second hand marketplace, which sale of the lifetime that was 'the one that got away' do you remember the most & why.*** Most times I don't care about missing out on stuff because it's way out of my budget and I think about a lot of things before I buy. Haha for me I'm still throwing salty salt everywhere on a particular one because 1) i had bought from the buyer before & had seen the doll from their collection and liked it but never asked 2) the doll was a one of a kind custom 3) the dolls was sold uber cheap as a urgent quick sale. Though I like to think that the dolls find you rather than you finding the dolls so I'm not as salty .. hehhe still salt* salt* everywhere!! Other questions include: How often do you check the marketplace, the longest time you have "wanted" an item/or are still searching for it & what would you say is your bjd buying style (do you impulse more, or 'miss out' more due to overthinking).