BJDs and Couples

My boyfriend has a pukipuki boy, I bought it for him a few years ago. He loves the little guy and goes to meetups with me. I know there's one SD he wants, but she's huge for one, and for another he doesn't want to be seen as creepy for having this giant lady doll. :C She looks exactly like one of his characters though.
But yeah, I 'm definitely the fanatic of the two of us but the hobby is something we share.

 

My fiance thinks my doll is pretty, he understands why she cost what she did and he loves watching me sew for her. Because I apparently have no muscles in my arms he helps me restring my doll and he's always super careful with her. But I doubt he would ever buy a doll for himself. He just doesn't have the interest to buy a doll which I think is sad because then I'd have extra dolls to sew for lol.

 

My boyfriend thought my dolls were creepy for a while, and that was okay, all I ever expected of him was to put up with them and not say negative things about them to me, but his definition of 'put up with' is more along the lines of 'get involved with', so he came to meetups and was always bored out of his mind, but still wanted to go with me most of the time. Then I took him to the local doll expo, first year running, and he mostly just waited in the stairwell because he was really creeped out by the artist dioramas. Then my friend gave me one of her dolls to paint for her, a little human Soom Taco with white marbles for eyes. I thought THAT was a little creepy, compared to most dolls, but my boyfriend just fell in love with him. It was like some part of his mind clicked into place. That doll flipped some mental switch, and he actually went into the artist display room and fell in love with some of those dolls too! He held and played with that little doll all the way home. Ever since then he's been interested in dolls and enjoys looking at them and thinking about what doll would be what character of his... but he still doesn't really ACTIVELY want one, like where he is right now in his life, he doesn't want to spend the money on a doll at the moment, and he doesn't usually come with me to meets anymore, but that's fine. He'd rather spend his extra money on Magic cards, so we've both got our own hobbies, but I'm now learning to play Magic, so we're also both at least a little involved in eachother's interests. He has told me recently, he feels like once he HAS a doll (Even though he has no PLANS to get one, he always talks about them like 'when' instead of 'if'.) he'll probably get much more into them and want more. I hope that's the case very much!

 

My BF is not into dolls, so he will never get one, unless they represent Luffy's crew in One Piece (I was thinking of a way to give life to these caracters, but I don't know which mold to use). However, he likes me making tons of stuff for mine, he gives me advices (which are often very good) and opinons, so, let say we share my dolls

 

This sounds adorable! I'm not with anyone right now, but I hope at least one of the people I date in my future would like bjds as much as I do. Sounds fun! Also, they'll know what to give me on my birthday. ;D

 

My girlfriend and I both collected BJDs before we were dating. We'll buy outfits, molds, bodies and such for each other as gifts (always being sneaky and finding out what the other wants come holiday/birthday time). Our dolls aren't really dating or married, more that some are siblings or related in some other way (friends, cousins, story wise and such). When it comes time to selling doll(s) that are linked in some way or the lines are blurred with who bought what, we have a mini discussion before deciding on selling said doll. Recently we've been selling a lot of dolls because we want to buy a house together so all the money is pooling into one savings which makes selling pretty easy rather than trying to split things up.

A lot of the time my girlfriend lets me come up with building up a doll character since she is a fan of the end result but not so much the process. Recently I've been obsessed with sneaking different outfits on her dolls when she's not looking.

 

I have to interrupt to say that this is the best thing EVAR. I sighed with content for you and your wife, Wolfie. Please produce a romantic comedy based on your life - kthnxbye. ;-)

 

My fiance hates dolls XD i dont know id feel weird if he was into dolls no idea........hard for me to explain!

 

I think it'd be super cool to have a significant other who was into BJDs. My guy isn't into BJDs at all, and I suspect he thinks they're a bit creepy. He is a collector of various things though, so he understands it a bit, and doesn't give me too hard of a time about it.

 

i really wish my love was into dolls...it would make so much more interesting topics! plus we could share and compair, trade each other, go on double dates with our dolls...maybe? either way, it would be super cute and super fun!!