Wow. This sounds like a stupid question. My friend and I were talking about her next doll, and she showed me one she likes, then she told me that the only thing stopping her from gettin him was because the site gave him a 'lover'. I just dont get it, why would that stop you from buying something you like? I would like to know what people think, and if maybe someone could explain it to me? Sorry if there is already a topic like this.