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Feedback thread for DrowninginDolls

Jan 20, 2007

    1. Bad Feedback For DrowningInDolls

      I recently asked Drowningindolls to hold an Elf Chiwoo head for me for two weeks. I misunderstood hold and layaway and when she asked about the downpayment I asked for a day, while I was at school the next day (around two) she informed me that she had backed out of the agreed-upon hold and that she had sold to someone else because they had all of the money. Thing was when I got on at 6 I was ready to pay her in full...

      if I can't trust her to hold a head, I wouldn't trust her with my money.

      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls


      I will put him on hold until the 12th. That would be right about there. As for down payment, just talk to her. Although if you do it in multiple payments I will charge paypal fees for each payment. Paypal fees are such a pain! So just let me know how much you want to send.
      Thanks!


      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Emberly
      Actually talked to my grandmother.. who said to ask for a hold for him. For layaway, what do you want for a down payment? I don't have anything in my account at the second... expect enough to cover shipping. :P So I'm going to leave that to you.. and her?

      Is there any particular day that'll be the end-time as the middle of October? I don't want to make things rough with the kitties. I know how it is. :)



      ....



      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls
      I would need the money by the middle of October - they'll be 6 months then. Will that work for you?


      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Emberly
      Hello... saw your chiwoo in the market place!

      Not sure I can pull strings yet, but would you be able to take a layaway? I know you won't take trade but I'm not sure how soon you need the money. :) Please let me know...

      Em

      Then, Today..

      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls
      I still haven't heard back from you. When we talked layaway originally I wasn't expecting to have all this lack of cominication nor a delay in the down payment. I have several other people wanting to buy the head outright, and so I think I will just let one of them have it. I need the money to be able to fix my cats, and when transactions start to go this way I have noticed they tend to not finish. I am sorry if you are upset, but I have to take care of my kitties first and formost.
      Have a nice weekend!


      Basically, she agreed to hold until the 12th and sold the head impatiently to someone else on the 5th, when she set no time or defined amount for the downpayment until one day before she expected me to pay it.




       
    2. Firts of let me say that I don't feel feedback was neccessary.
      Also, I find it interesting that she didn't bother to post my apology and my explanation as to why I reacted. I told her I misjudged the situation. The last PM I got from her was Saturday Sept 29th, saying she would talk to her Grandmother about downpayment and talk to me tommorrow, which she didn't. She wasn't at school Sunday. When I contacted her about it Thursday, all I got was the same thing, I'll talk to my Grandmother. So Friday I let someone have it who had the money in hand. I was worried that she would bail out on me the last minute, and I was worried about my cats being fixed in time. I am sure there was miscommunication. I did misjudge the situation in assuming she would bail on me. However, this feedback was really unfair and twisted the whole thing. As for being vague about the amount, I was willing to hear how much the downpayment would be instead of determining the maount myself. I thought it was more considerate, but now I see it wa stupid.
      Since she posted PM's, I will put some in here as well so that it will at least be more whole:

      This is from Saturday, Sept 29th.


      Re: Chiwoo!

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      No problem. I had the same policy on my own layaways!

      She just fell asleep, so I'll talk to you tomorrow. Thanks!!


      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls
      Grandmas are wonderful, aren't they? I will put him on hold until the 12th. That would be right about there. As for down payment, just talk to her. Although if you do it in multiple payments I will charge paypal fees for each payment. Paypal fees are such a pain! So just let me know how much you want to send.
      Thanks!



      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Emberly
      Actually talked to my grandmother.. who said to ask for a hold for him. For layaway, what do you want for a down payment? I don't have anything in my account at the second... expect enough to cover shipping. :P So I'm going to leave that to you.. and her?

      Is there any particular day that'll be the end-time as the middle of October? I don't want to make things rough with the kitties. I know how it is.




      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls
      I'll look forward to hearing from you. He is a cutie! If I didn't need the head and like the sleeping vamps better I would keep him. I love the Chiwoo elf face so much, which is why I have 2.



      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Emberly
      I'm not quite sure, I'm totally interesting and I'll see what I can do, but it's so late tonight that I'll have to see about tomorrow. Okay? He's such, such a little cutttie!



      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls
      I would need the money by the middle of October - they'll be 6 months then. Will that work for you?



      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Emberly
      Hello... saw your chiwoo in the market place!

      Not sure I can pull strings yet, but would you be able to take a layaway? I know you won't take trade but I'm not sure how soon you need the money. Please let me know...

      Em

      Re: Chiwoo!

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      I am sorry if you feel that I am a bad seller, but when I ask someone to let me know about downpayment (Sunday) and its 3 day before I write you again to ask you and I hear that I said not to worry about downpayment when I said that each payment I would paypal fees, and then I don't hear right back I am not sure I am dealing with a responsible buyer. I think that saying you're going to look for a better seller was a little unneccessary and childish.

      I am sorry that this worked out this way, but I have bought and sold alot on message boards the last couple of years and when I don't hear back and get payment right away, I end up not getting payment at all. In your situation I guess I misjudged things. I wouldn't have been so anxious if the money was going to go into my doll fund, but since my cats need nuetering, and the layaway ended by the cut off time, I was worried that I would find myself in a mess. I feel really bad about the way this turned out.
      I don't want any bad feelings. Again I am sorry.



      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Emberly
      Um... I messaged you last night and asked for a day to get in touch with my grandmother... today she offered to pay in full tonight, but if you have decided to sell the head outright I suppose I'll have to talk to her again and start looking for a better seller. Otherwise, I am still interested.

      Em


      Quote:
      Originally Posted by drowningindolls
      I still haven't heard back from you. When we talked layaway originally I wasn't expecting to have all this lack of cominication nor a delay in the down payment. I have several other people wanting to buy the head outright, and so I think I will just let one of them have it. I need the money to be able to fix my cats, and when transactions start to go this way I have noticed they tend to not finish. I am sorry if you are upset, but I have to take care of my kitties first and formost.
      Have a nice weekend!



      I don't know what else to say, I have never had a transaction go bad before.

      :(
       
    3. This is the only time I have ever started a transaction without looking at feedback first. My mistake.
       
    4. I just bought an elf Chiwoo head from Drowningindolls. It was a perfect transaction. She kept up great communication with me, shipped out right away, and the head arrived in great shape! I'd definitely do business with her again. :)
       
    5. Hello all I just got a Hyde head off of drowningindolls and it was fast and easy! great member!
       
    6. I bought a head from growningindolls. Communication was good, fast shipping, over all a great and smooth transaction!

      Thank you very much!!
       
    7. I ordered a pair of boots from Drowningindolls. Shipping was very fast, with great communication. :) They arrived very well packaged and in beautiful condition. Would definitely order from again!
       
    8. I bought 2 pairs of sneakers from Drowningindolls. Transactions was perfect - great communication fast shipping :) Thanks!
       
    9. Bought another pair of boots and a pair of stockings. <3 Fast shipping as last time, excellent transaction.
       
    10. I ordered a pair of boots and thought I got the wrong pair, and she was so nice! <3 She was going to make up for my mistake and didn't go nuts on me or anything. I was in the wrong though. X3 (haha, go me.) But she made the entire process smooth over and quiet lovely. <3 I can't wait to find something to buy from her again. <3
       
    11. drowningindolls just purchased an elf yder head from me. She paid super quickly and kept up great communication with me! I definately would deal with again.

      And for such a great transaction she gets a candy smiley... lol :chocoberry:truffle
       
    12. drowningindolls purchased an el head from me. She paid very quickly. Communication was excellent and she let me know once he had arrived. A very pleasant transaction. Thanks!
       
    13. drowningindolls purchased a head from me, very friendly communication, ultra quick payment, and just overall wonderful to deal with. I am so happy you got this head, can't wait to see what you do with it :D
       
    14. Had a great transaction with DrowninginDolls she kept me informed of shipping and she paid very quickly :). She's a very nice person^^.
       
    15. Drowningdolls bought a head from me and even though there was an error on my part, she was very kind about it. She paid fast and communication was great. Thank you!
       
    16. DrowninginDolls bought a Lishe on Fdoll body from me, the communication was exillent! She let me know when the doll arrived etc. ^_^ I def. recommand her!
       
    17. I purchased a NS hide Minimee head from Drowningindolls.
      Communication was great and shipping was super fast! Great transaction!!
      Kudos and many many thanks!! <3
       
    18. It's my second transaction with DrowninginDolls, I'm very happy for this one too!! She's very nice and paid very quickly again!! Thanks, I hope work with you agin^^.
       
    19. Had a nice and easy transaction with drowningindolls who purchased two Lu-Wen heads from me. Very friendly and a very nice experience. Thanks much and enjoy!!
       
    20. drowningindolls purchaed a head from me and was just an absolute delight to deal with:fangirl: Prompt payment, engergetic and quick communication!!! Just the best. Would love to do business with again soon:chibi.... :thumbup:thumbup for this awesome transaction.
      ~Anthony