I was thinking about getting a Red Elfdoll. I saw one in person and he very good looking to me, but not to girly, guy dolls seem like they tend to look girly to me. (I always find my slef wondering guy or girl with the dolls ) But I went looing around on DA and here, so many reds tend to look to girly to and it turned me off from the Reds. Has this ever happend to any one? That you think you love a doll but then you see others and that makes you not want one?