I don't go around talking about my personal issues, but I really need to sell some stuff, so I need to "unlock" this mental status. Because of a buyer and payapal I almost lost 200 euro (I didn't lose my money just because usps sent the package back home after someone suggested me there was this option on their site) and now I can't really bring myself to sell again. Partially because of paypal: I didn't expect the backstab. PP gave the money immediately back to the buyer, even if the tracking was still working (the package was just stuck in a postal office near buyer's town). I also committed a mistake: I had to be more firm and insist on using EMS instead of accepting to use the slowest method and help her saving some money. I will never, ever ship something oversea via slowest method ever again. I could use some advice to really bring myself back to sell. I'm just too scared to find myself in another similar situation and we are not talking about 10 euro items here... I was lucky once, but what about next time?