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Poll: How picky are you???

Aug 25, 2024

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  1. I spend months deciding on my next doll.

    24 vote(s)
    13.6%
  2. I have a list of future dolls and buy dolls accordingly.

    36 vote(s)
    20.3%
  3. I only look for dolls when I am ready to purchase one.

    12 vote(s)
    6.8%
  4. I window shop all the time and just decide to buy when I see a doll that I want.

    64 vote(s)
    36.2%
  5. If a doll is in stock and/or on sale I am buying it.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  6. More of a combination of the above answers. Comment which ones?

    32 vote(s)
    18.1%
  7. Something else, explain in comments.

    9 vote(s)
    5.1%
    1. I have a list of dolls that I want to save up for, so I usually stick to that list when purchasing a new doll. I check out new dolls that come out, but most of the time I won’t impulse buy dolls I see (unless they really speak to me or if they’re limited).
       
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    2. I mostly window shop for the heads and am picky for the bodies. I of course have heads/dolls I want a lot, so I do have a (short) list of future dolls, but as I like window shop, I quite often end with unplanned heads. These heads usually wait years for their bodies.
       
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    3. I have a short list of dolls I’m interested in, but if one of them comes up or something I like shows up, all bets are off and my wallet is running the gauntlet. I’ll usually wait until near the end of a limited sale time though, just to be sure I actually want them, or follow their making on instagram or what have you.
      Fortunately, most of the ones on the list are rare or not particularly high priority.
       
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    4. I've definitely become more picky the longer I've been in the hobby. This is partly a function of having examples of more types of the dolls I'm interested in, and also honing in on what I want to collect. Now that I have more dolls, it's easier to ask "do I really need this? do I already have something like this in my collection"? Before the answer was no. Now, the answer is - maybe!
       
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    5. I'm a mix of the above. So, generally, I have a few grails that are now available even on the marketplace, but I either don't like the state they're in, or the price. Or generally, they're 'softcore grails', where I love looking up their pics online, but I don't feel like I need them unless I get a really good deal. So I'm looking for a deal on them.

      But then, again, i literally have just purchased a secondhand body for one of the heads i'd had for sale and wasn't sure I really wanted to sell. So... I broke several of my promises (downsizing, no more boys, no bigger than 58cm, just no more dollz. period!) and here we are xD

      Also, often when I needed something specific, e.g. a doll body (usually of alice's collections), I'd just go and buy it whenever they had an event. Either on the particular company's products, or generally, so I could grab some accessories.

      So... I'm a mix, no specific strategy or pattern to it.
       
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    6. I'm a combination of the above answers. I have lists of Grail dolls that I'm always on the hunt for and save up and have those in a higher priority than standard dolls that are always available. I also have a list of dolls I wouldn't mind buying and could even buy if I wanted to right now, but I'm saving up and being financially reasonable. I also know my favorite doll company tends to sell dolls in cycles or in lotteries so I just wait until the opportunity arises and either purchase at that moment or hope I get a chance to buy if it is a lottery system. It really just depends on my situation at the moment, what dolls are available at the time, and how much I really want that particular doll.
       
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    7. I consider myself to be very picky when it comes to choose and purchasing BJDs. Most of my dolls were planned for months or even years before obtaining them.

      I have been interested in BJD dolls since... late 2016 i think? But I haven't been able to afford the hobby financially until 2022. My second doll was my grail from 2016, a Minifee Rendia Full-set and I could finally afford her in 2022 via second hand/WTB posts.

      I have also purchased some discontinued dolls that I had on my wishlist for years until I could finally find them. ^_^
       
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    8. i tend to make impulse buys i end up regretting later if i don't create a strict wishlist to go by. a clear wishlist also helps me envision dolls ready for some reason which helps me to get excited over the dolls and end up being happier with them :)
       
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    9. I do like window shopping, but have a wishlist to keep myself in check! Generally, I take my time to plan and contemplate for several months/years before purchasing a doll if said sculpt is not time limited or I know it will come back. When I take my time, I can avoid impulse buys and be more confident that the doll I am purchasing is one that I for sure want!

      That being said, when a sculpt is time limited (but not limited in quantity) I will still think about it but usually reach a decision faster (ex: Ringdoll Hua Cheng).

      If a doll is both time and quantity limited (ex: SOOM Idealian) I will not hesitate. This is a very special circumstance/exception since I have only one, maybe two, doll(s) I want from SOOM, which is Hyperon. Even still, I have been planning to buy a Hyperon for years for one of my OCs; I know he will come back, I just have to be patient and be prepared to purchase him when the time comes (I have money set aside specifically for him!) :3nodding:

      As for being picky, I have always been picky! Since most of my dolls are my own already existing OCs, I seek the perfect sculpt for them, hence the window shopping but also extensive planning. It can take a very long time to find what I'm looking for, but I usually don't budge once I do unless the sculpt is forever discontinued.
       
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    10. I'm more interested in 1/3 dolls, so every purchase is an investment that needs thorough consideration, otherwise it's a lot of money thrown to the wind all at once.
      That said, I am fortunately EXTREMELY picky. Everyone wants a beautiful doll with good poseability, but dolls that catch my particular eye are few and far between. I only have one Limited doll because my picky self have never found one that really enticed me.

      With that said, I take months deciding whether I want a doll or not. The good thing is that me making impulse purchases are incredibly rare!
       
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    11. I am the impulsive buyer. Huge sucker for a deal on a secondhand or in-stock doll. Mandarake has me to thank for unloading quite a bit of their inventory.

      Thanks to some wonderful folks over in Brigadoon, my impulsive spree is finally, finally starting to relent. I have so much envy for folks who have plans and characters they want to shell. I am a "ooh, pretty! -> buy" doll collector. Fortunately, this too is changing. I guess my tastes are starting to "mature" in the sense that I am figuring out what I want out of my collection, and I do have some characters I want my dolls to cosplay as - mostly Disney and DC Comics villains.

      I say that, and then a company releases a new big girl, and sigh...

      I say Iris (my off-topic monster) is my grail, and she is, but I'm still looking for that one perfect body (a bit obsessed with bodies). The body I'm still waiting for is a big girl body with the perfect combination of sculpting and posing. I will find it! One day...
       
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    12. Price is a huge factor for me, and even one impulse purchase as expensive as a BJD would throw my bank balance into disrepair.

      That being said, I don't meticulously plan which doll I get next - I go by gut feeling, shortlist dolls I like, and keep an eye out for one of them on Mandarake and Dollyteria. They make their way home if/when I can afford it. That's how Sumi got here :)
       
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    13. I save my money in 2 different ways: What I have to save for the future and what I can spend for my hobbies. So I prefer to have a list of wich dolls I really want to have instead of buying everything I liked it as I made last 2 years. I think I'm more responsible atm than when I started the hobby.
       
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    14. I should sign this. :lol:

      My "master list" is seemingly endless, tbh. And I can't get myself to shorten it.
      When it comes to actually buying one of the BJDs (also eyes and wigs) on that list, though...
      The process is meticulous:
      1# - A certain amount of money has to be already saved up or I'm not even going to entertain the idea of buying something.
      2# - Take a look at what's available from my list and for what price.
      3# - Does one of the dolls on my "master list" happen to be...
      a) - a discontinued sculpt that is currently available or available again for a short time?
      b) - discontinued soon?
      c) - on sale right now?
      5# - Do I REALLY want this doll? Do I really NEED this doll? Have I looked at the blank sculpt? Owner pictures?
      6# - Am I lying to myself? Is this a last minute purchase due to FOMO or am I not feeling too great at the moment?
      a) - Yes to one or both. Don't buy it.
      b) - No. And I'm doing good. Buy it.

      Sometimes I break my own rules... :wiggle Except rule 1#. I frequently stop after 2#, though.
      Might sound a bit dumb to others, but I tend to accumulate a lot of stuff that I don't need if I don't control myself.
      Sure hope that my taste will become more specific once I've owned more dolls.
       
      #54 Violet2020, Oct 29, 2024
      Last edited: Oct 29, 2024
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    15. I know exactly what I want. I have my wish list and I shop accordingly. And, of course, according to the current state of my finances.
       
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    16. Yes, I follow many of the same rules. I'm always weighing one doll against another, but as I have dolls already being paid off atm...it shortens the available list dramatically. I can only support so many dolls at a time, yanno. In the meantime, I try to have a base of "surprise" fund available in case anything I've been watching decides to discontinue.
       
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    17. My threshold for buying is pretty high, yet my criteria are mostly "vibes" right now. While I admire many sculpts, that doesn't mean I want or need them in my collection. What do I want? I'll know when I see it I guess :lol: And there are only a couple sculpts that I consider "soft-grails", in that if they are available I would seriously consider buying, but if they never come up again I won't be crushed.
       
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    18. That's me! :3nodding:
       
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    19. Oh my, I actually have a surprise fund as well on top of all these rules :lol:
       
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    20. I call my surprise fund my "Woosoo fund" even though I already managed to get a Woosoo, and I didn't even have to dip into the Woosoo fund to buy it. But it's still "Woosoo fund" in my head :lol:
       
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