Your Dolls in Your Wedding??

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I was just talking about this with my boyfriend! I asked him, that whenever we got married after college if I could use my two tinies as the cake toppers. I plan on buying all my dolls suits and formal dresses so they can be present as well. They are my resin kids after all~ They deserve to be there after all the ranting they had to here about him! Cute topic btw!

 

My Husband to be wont let me... he's a little leery about Dolls in general. He thinks my hobby is a little creepy. ><;;; cries. I'm not upset that my Olivia and Moo wont be there, but at the same time, Its sad. She's my baby. I could have used it as a reason to buy new cloths for her!

 

Honestly, I feel like it takes away from the a sacred moment being about two people loving and adoring each other and committing to a life-long journey together.

I think it's a "cute" idea and all in concept, but really, like I said I think it takes something away from a really sacred loving expression moment between two humans (seriously, like involving them in your love-making...yeah, that doesn't sound so cute and cool now does it). It brings something very materialistic into something that is so not about material things. That's just my person feeling, of course ymmv.

Not to mention, it's one more very expensive thing to worry about during a day that is filled with things that can and will go wrong. Can you imagine how much it would ruin the day if you were to lose, damage or have your expensive doll stolen?

 

Awesome!
I think i'm gonna borrow your idea for when I finally get my b/f to marry me. (XD)
And I'll get all my other boys in nice lil suits and my girls in pretty dresses.
And they would all be there for sure!
And my mom would call me crazy, but my granma would love it!
And I'm sure my b/f's future girl(s) will be in a pretty dress too.
yes we're both nuts that way. (and about eachother)

 

Actually, I felt it made the day a little more special. The dolls did not come with us on our honeymoon, and while people thought the concept was very unique, having them there did not detract in anyway from our actual ceremony. As for the expense, I had already spent the money on them and made their costumes myself. I decided that using them instead of buying a cake topper which would only have been thrown out by me later, would be more special for us. I did not worry about them because one, them were on a very sturdy doll stand, two, I knew all the people at my wedding, which was fairly large, three, I think someone would have noticed someone walking out with them, and four, one of my closest friends took responsibility for making sure they got back to my house safely after the wedding. And at the wedding, they were kept far away from where anyone might accidently bump into them.

I don't think that using dolls detracts from, the wedding anymore than people who find it "cute" to use their dogs as ring bearers, or small children, both of whom could potential lose the expensive wedding rings. And I don't see how 2 (or more) inanimate objects would detract from a wedding. As for being materialistic...I had a relatively inexpesive wedding...only a few thousand dollars. Aside from the ceremony iteself, it seems to me that large weddings are extremely materialistic in that they can cost tens of thousands of dollars, especially with all the litttle fancy accoutrements that go along with it.

That may just be my opinion, but in my case, my dolls made my wedding a little more special (especially considering they were one of the only decorations, thanks to my rotten caterers not bringing the decorations that they were supposed to have brought), and I was not at all concerned about them. And I certainly don't see how they detracted from the "sacred loving expression moment between two humans" that was my wedding.

 

Not that I'm planning to get married, but if I did I've always thought I'd be nice to carry one up the isle instead of a bokay.
Not sure I'd risk throwing them into the crowd mind o.o;;

 

Congratulations to all who are / got married ^.^

My boyfriend and I were talking about weddings (only 9 months into our relationship) because I read alot of wedding magasines and that I want to be a pastry chef (I want to mostly make wedding cakes ^,^)

My boyfriend is willing to include things from my religion (I'm pagan, and i want the hand fasting ritual) and I'd like to have a medieval wedding. I'd have the ceremony be christian (catholic? I can't tell the difference Sorry) because my mother and grand-parents are christian.

I have a doll on the way and my sweet heart said "it'd be nice if you'd incorporate your doll in our wedding,when we get married someday" ( He uses when and not if) and I thought of placing my doll (or dolls later on) close to the little book the guests sign

 

It's good point you have there, but I was thinking on one thing: If I would have dolls at my wedding I would put them in care om some of my closest friends ^^ If I would have dogs at my wedding I would see that someone are the "dog sitter" so why not have a doll sitter or two? If my sister would have give me the task to look after a doll (or in my sisters case, one of her cats) I would do it

 

I think it would be cool to have my dolls in my wedding (if I ever get married that is). I would want one to wear a replica of my wedding dress... that would be so cool!! And my dog would definitely be there too. I think there would be more dolls and animals at my wedding than people! lol

 

Well, I can't picture myself ever getting married, but if I did I think I'd be too worried that somebody might steal them, even if I had someone stand by and watch them. I'm also very self-conscience and would probably ALSO worry that people would also be all "... the hell?" about it. I have some rather odd relatives that I don't think I'd trust to even understand how much they mean.

But it's YOUR big event, so if you want it, go for it. You only live once, and it's something to talk about! My sister is getting married and she wants her DOG in the ceremony. I've seen people include anything from a person in a Garfield costume to marrying in the oddest locations anyone could think of. I don't think a doll cake topper or table decoration would be any stranger.

 

I'm not sure if I'd have my dolls at my wedding. While I think it might be a cute idea I would be worried about something happening to them. I have lots of cousins who have or will have children by the time I get married, and I have a phobia about my dolls and small grabby hands...

 

My boyfriend and I are buying each other tinies for our one year,

Were we to get married? I'd absolutely love to have them as cake toppers.
Our ceremony would be small, as half of my family considers me disowned,
and all of his family lives in Ireland or Guyana ^^;

So I wouldn't mind bringing little cadence along too,
as a decoration.
I'd have someone keeping an eye on her I'd think.
It always depends on how the wedding goes-
there's always a car to hide her in if need be.

I don't have to worry about it for now!
He isn't proposing until march, and after that we have forever to wait.
;P

 

My boy would be included....mostly because at this point, I think he'd be the one I'd be marrying! (Honeymoon stage. ^^;;;; )

 

Me and my boyfriend arent planning on getting married anytime soon, but he said that if he proposed to me, he'd buy a doll instead of a ring and all the dolls Id bought would have to be in the front row at the wedding... Possibly the nicest thing hes ever said to me ^^

I think itd be lovely, though I can just see my mums reaction now... Almost as bad as the time I said I wanted a cosplay wedding xD

 

I don't think I'd have them at my wedding, but the bridal shower might be kind of cute and far more practical! Good idea!

 

If I get married, my dolls are going to be at/in the wedding somehow.

They're so important to me that I would never let them miss something that important.

(thankfully my current voyfriend understands that and respect the fact the if we get married they're gonna be there )

 

My boyfriend (still waiting for my ring ) Phreekk and I talked about having our dolls at our wedding. He owns a Dollshe Bernard and I own a CP Dark Human Soo. We thought about having costumes made to resemble my gown and his tux and pose the dolls by the cake. We do slightly resemble our dolls and we thought it would be a cute idea. But, with all other expenses I'm not sure if we will actually go through with it or not. We also don't want the dolls to get damaged in any way while they are on display. I would probably carry them around with me the whole time making sure they were safe.

 

...No.

Dolls are toys, and a wedding should be about you and whoever you're getting hitched to.

At push I would have pet dogs, but probably not.