Yes to both of your questions. If you don't want ear make-up, simply write in the notes for your order that you don't want the ear make-up. To order the ears separately, just get in touch with me by any means (DoA mail, e-mail, Facebook, etc) and I'll set that up for you.
DollZone has just informed us that the manufacturer of MiYou's tail has changed. The new tail looks like this: