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How would you feel if someone gave you BJD clothes as a gift?

Dec 24, 2009

    1. I'd be thrilled if someone bought me clothes as a gift. Sure they might not fit my boy, or even suit him, but they'll be a use for it somewhere down the line. I like gifts, and I like giving gifts. :D
       
    2. My sister actually gave me a sleeveless overcoat (historical style) for Luken last year. I was very happy then and I'm even happier now cos that coat's gonna be perfect for my Celaran-doll which will be a Minimee-head on a UniReal-body. And it's a perfect fit, too. My sister told me she secretly measured Luken while he was at my parents' and waiting for me to pick him up and take him to my place.
       
    3. How would you feel if your parents, or friends got you BJD clothes but they know nothing about BJDs. They could get you the wrong size, or the wrong style!
      Just the thought of them getting stuff for my dolls would have already made me happy, regardless whether the clothes they got for them fits or not. One of my friends, who has a 'crush' on my first doll, hinted that she might make some clothes for him once she has time, so this clothes as a gift thing might be a reality! :lol:

      Do you prefer for them to just let you pick out all the clothes?
      I guess I would prefer to choose them myself, since I have my own taste and their sense of style might not be the same as mine

      Would you return it? Regardless of how they'd feel about that?
      No, gift is a gift, it'll be rude and thoughtless of me to return it back to them

      Or would you just appreciate their thoughts (and acceptance of BJDs) and keep the clothes?
      Thats what I said in the first question ;) it very difficult to find people that accepts my hobby from my circle of friends/family, so getting any BJD related gifts from them will make my day!
       
    4. If anyone in my family or friends were to give me BJD clothes as a gift, I would cry of happiness. I mean it! it doesn't matter if the clothes are the wrong size or are not the style of my boys, what matters is that they care about you^^

      But my family thinks that my dolls already have a lot of clothes XD and I only have interest in BJDs and books so they are always giving me books as presents <3
       
    5. Like any gift..it would be the thought that counts? lol
       
    6. How would you feel if your parents, or friends got you BJD clothes but they know nothing about BJDs. They could get you the wrong size, or the wrong style!
      The fact that they would get clothes would be absolutely touching. I was over-ecstatic when my fiancè said he wanted to get some for Christmas (ended up not being able to due to finances). If my family did, I would be blown away. They see owning a doll as being immature.

      Do you prefer for them to just let you pick out all the clothes?
      While me picking them would be optimal, I wouldn't have a problem with them choosing. I like trying new styles on Ax.

      Would you return it? Regardless of how they'd feel about that?
      Only if it was too small, then I'd resell it and use the money to get something else they picked (in the right size). If it was too big, I'd just alter it to fit.

      Or would you just appreciate their thoughts (and acceptance of BJDs) and keep the clothes?
      Again, would keep as long as they weren't too small. Otherwise, would be very thankful.
       
    7. Well, I'm always asked for stuff that I want for birthdays or xmas c: so I'd be able to show them some stuff I'd like and it'd be up to them which one they bought.

      I'd love to get BJD clothes (or other stuff) as a gift. One of my fave gifts at xmas was Finny's new clothes, and I bought those myself XDD

      But yeah, seeing as pretty much all the prices for BJD stuff is in US$ means that it's around double the price for me, then there's double the shipping... And paying $50 for one $11USD t-shirt +$20 shipping is just asking way too much of my friends and family 8l so I buy them myself with my own money xD;
       
    8. I'd love it if someone gave me stuff for my dolls. To get around the possibility of getting the wrong stuff, I use the universal wish list button to add stuff I want to my amazon wishlist! Then I make notes for sizes/colors as needed. I'm just happy that my family understands my love of dolls, so even if they happened to get something that wasn't on my list, I'd love it anyway. :)
       
    9. I would really be happy..even if the size was incorrect! It's the thought that matters.
       
    10. I'd be extremly greatful, I don't care if it doesn't fit or it's too big. For someone to go out of their way and buy something for my doll?! That would make me so happy, and i'd get them a gift in return.
       
    11. I would be really happy about that, even though there's no need for them to do it, especially since I'll be making my own clothes for my dolls. But if they were to, they would either already know what ones I do like by finding out in a sneaky way or else my parents will just give me a "certificate" (a print out paper prettified and everything XDD saying something along the lines of "This is a pass for you to choose ANY outfit you want". My mom did that for like a casino I could go to as a christmas present and she'd give me a certain amount of money to use). They usually find out more about what my interests are. My dad already asked about the eyes and he knows now that there are different sizes of BJDs so not everything will fit. So it's good that everyone at least makes sure in some way that it would work. If not, then either I sell it and they get me something else or send it back XD
       
    12. I would be shocked....and happy! and shocked.... cause my parents don't even understand drawing. If I were to ask for drawing supplies, I'd get a pack of crayola crayons from WalMart from them. :\

      If it was from my friends or boyfriend, I'd be overjoyed because then I'd feel they're apart of and in support of my hobby.

      I actually would like to pick the clothes out myself...or at least have them ask questions about size. Like, I'd pick out a bunch of outfits I would want, and they can decide and surprise me on which one they get.
       
    13. For me, I think returning and not accepting it is the least thing that I would do.
      You are so blessed to have parents like that, I mean they are thoughtful enough to make an effort and give you a gift for you and you beloved doll ( a hobby that as you have said they don't know about but then they tried to do that maybe to show that they are happy for you and that they support you for that...)

      If it is not your style, at least give it a try, who knows, that maybe a good alter-ego or transformation for your doll... ^^
      If it is the wrong size, hmmm... use your imagination, mix and match, play with proportions (big sizes are what hip hop and rappers wear haha!)
      If still you don't want it, I'd be happy to have it! Just Kidding!

      And it's the thought that counts, isn't it? ^__^
      These are all my personal opinion it is still up to you... hope that helps!
       
    14. I'd be happy, no matter if I'd actually have use for them.
      I even alter most clothes I pick out, I can surely do the same to dolly clothes that others picked, in case they actually, 100% do not match my boys' styles. No big deal.
       
    15. Ok, in my opinion it's not at all about the what you get, it's about people giving enough of a crap to TRY and get you something you want. Gifts are about the effort other people make to understand and appreciate you as a individual. Sure it's nice to get what you want, but I think it's nicer to know people care enough about you to make an effort. I don't see how clothing for your BJD differs from any other sort of gift.

      I always buy things in black, *always* Anyway, the first Christmas I spent with my hubby's parents they got me a bunch of weird stuff I'd never use in a million years. BUT, they made sure that everything was black. And that was enough for me. I was so touched that they made such an effort. Thing is, no one ever *has* to care, so when they do it worth it.

      If a family member bought me clothes for my BJD I'd be so excited. Even if it was something I didn't like, because I know that venturing into this doll world can be a big effort for people who aren't into the hobby.
       
    16. I'd be happy and really appreciate it if someone got me BJD clothes, but I don't imagine they'd do it. I've linked to a couple pieces for people before when they wanted gift ideas but they always went another route. I don't blame them, though; I'm not always comfortable buying from sites I've never used pertaining to hobbies I don't understand--my brother likes Magic, and he had this list of cards and packs he wanted, but I ended up buying him something else he wanted for Christmas because I got a bit confused and just wasn't sure about what he wanted--so I imagine it could be the same for others when it comes to my hobby. :)
       
    17. This.

      In general, it's best to accept gifts in the spirit they're given. It's still a thoughtful thing, even if they're the wrong size or in a style that you wouldn't necessarily have picked for yourself.
       
    18. I would be extremely happy if someone gave me doll clothes as a gift! Sometimes I even ask my sister for doll-related things for Christmas and it's always exciting to see what she chooses for me. :3 My mom is pretty thoughtful so if she wanted to get my doll clothes as a gift, she would likely consult my sister to confirm what would fit, etc. However, if she, or anyone, just bought something and it didn't fit or wasn't the style of my current dolls, I'd still be grateful. I have/want dolls in practically every size, so I'm sure the items would fit a future doll. ^^
       
    19. I'd be greatful. If it was the wrong size or style, well, that just means I need a doll to fit that size/style! ;) My family is more likely to give me things I can use for props, though.
       
    20. I'd be floored, for sure! My family is pretty negative about the doll hobby, only my kid brother has somewhat of an interest in it but then again he tries to get to know everything I like. :)