How would you feel if someone gave you BJD clothes as a gift?

If anyone gave me clothes or made clothes for my doll I would draw them a picture saying thank you and hug them.
Nothing is sweeter then receiving gifts for your doll. I think that would kinda make me cry a little. TAT

 

I would be so happy! My doll really needs more clothes... but if they didn't fit him, I would try to alter them into something that would. If they're only a little big, maybe I could take them in. As for style, I don't really care. I'll take anything lol.

If I could pick them out then I surely would. I already have my eye on a few things. I really want skinny jeans for him.

 

I doubt anyone would buy me BJD clothes for a gift, most of them are not BJD savvy enough, but I would be quite flattered, at least some of my dolls would have something to where instead of lounging around naked waiting for their proper clothes. >_>

 

I would definitely appreciate the sentiment, and would likely keep the clothes if they were a good fit, even if I didn't like the style.
But if they didn't fit, I would definitely return them, and I don't think they would be offended. Most people in this day and age are used to the fact that if they buy you a useless gift, it could get returned. I'm not talking about something like art you just don't happen to like. It still has a use. I mean, like a pair of pants that are way, way too small. What are you supposed to do with them if you can't wear them? They are useless. Returning them, and getting something that does fit, as long as you're not just returning it for the cash, is still following the sentiment of the gift.

 

1) Wrong size or not, I'd feel touched by the fact that they cared enough about me to realize that it's a gift that suits me to a T.

2) While being able to pick them out would be nice, my husband and friends take great joy in surprising me, so I prefer they do what makes them feel happiest as the gift giver.

3) Hm, my friends and family are the type of people who would buy such a gift knowing that it's like buying clothes for people: it might have to be returned because it doesn't physically fit. Hence, they'd make sure that whatever doll clothes they buy me can be returned for ones that CAN fit. Since they know me well enough that, when seeing the first oufit I made for my dolly didn't surprise them, it's not very likely that they'd get me anything that wasn't to my tastes.

4) If the clothes fit, of course I'll keep them! If they don't, I wouldn't want their hard-earned money to be wasted: I'd rather return them for clothes that DO fit my doll, so I can proudly show them what a nice and wonderful gift they gave me by having my doll wear them.

In the end, my situation is such that receiving doll clothes as a gift would be a wonderful delight! After all, they're FREE.

--EDIT--

Even if they decide to buy my doll clothes that weren't to my taste... I know I'll find a use for them, even if it's for cosplay or a photoshoot. Waste not, want not!

 

I think if I ever got clothes as a gift for my doll's I would be in heaven! I mean I have at least 1 of almost every size so no matter what it is I know it would fit one of them! and also I would be glad that someone actually took the time to buy me something that most of my friends are afraid of >.<!

 

Aww, I would find that really sweet if someone were to so.

How would you feel if your parents, or friends got you BJD clothes but they know nothing about BJDs. They could get you the wrong size, or the wrong style!
It doesn't matter if its in the wrong size or style, I would totally appreciate it. The thought of it is already sweet enough for me.

Do you prefer for them to just let you pick out all the clothes?
Well, if I were to pick, it wouldn't be called a gift would it. No surprise in that.

Would you return it? Regardless of how they'd feel about that?, Or would you just appreciate their thoughts (and acceptance of BJDs) and keep the clothes?

No, I wouldn't return it. I feel awful to dislike a gift that was given to me. It would feel like a bomb hits them if I gave it back. If they feel happy that I'm happy about receiving it, maybe that would encourage them to get more? Hehee, who knows?

I would keep the clothes, it would make me smile seeing it because, it shows the support and love from someone who tries their best, even if they know nothing about BJDs.

 

A little background on my gift situation: I was born Christmas morning, so I only get one shot every year to ask for things. Sure I'm always grateful for what I get because I could always be one of the less fortunate folks who aren't blessed with a wonderful family or the money for a proper Christmas, but because I come from a split family that doesn't really communicate, I find I often have to return a bunch of duplicates, and how could I forget my grandmother's yearly gag gift. Ever been given a houndstooth patterned, asterisk shaped lamp before? I've found that using the right amount of tact and grace is key to not hurting anyone's feelings when you get things you didn't necessarily want. In any case, it's important to remain grateful, the giver was trying, and the thought does count.


How would you feel if your parents, or friends got you BJD clothes but they know nothing about BJDs. They could get you the wrong size, or the wrong style!

The fact that they tried is the most important thing! I wouldn't be bothered in the slightest. Even being a member of the BJD hobby it's still tough to find the right clothes sometimes, imagine how hard it is for someone who hasn't a clue about it!

Do you prefer for them to just let you pick out all the clothes?

Though I wouldn't fight them if they offered me a doll clothes shopping spree, there are people who find giving money, gift cards and sprees to be a little impersonal, and I respect that.

Would you return it? Regardless of how they'd feel about that?

I would only return the item if the giver was distressed that the item didn't fit. If it fit, but just wasn't the doll's style, I would not return it unless the giver was distressed that it didn't look right.

Or would you just appreciate their thoughts (and acceptance of BJDs) and keep the clothes?

I would definitely appreciate the thought and keep the clothes for a while. If after a while I still haven't found a use for them, I may ask the giver which they liked the most and keep that one, then sell or trade the others for more appropriate clothes. This would be something I'd wait quite a while to do, though.

 

I'd probably be happy that they cared enough about my dolls or my feeling towards my dolls to buy them anything. And even if it wasn't the 'right style', I'm pretty sure I could find someone along the way to wear it. I've got a boy who I want for Christmas who is a pretty quirky dresser; he'd be up to wearing just about anything xD

 

How would you feel if your parents, or friends got you BJD clothes but they know nothing about BJDs. They could get you the wrong size, or the wrong style!
I'd feel really delighted all in all because it gives me a sign that they are somewhat supportive of what I like It doesn't really matter to me about style in all honesty seeing as I'm an all around person.
Do you prefer for them to just let you pick out all the clothes?
it would be nice if they let me pick it out but if they did it themselves I'd still be thrilled beyond belief
Would you return it? Regardless of how they'd feel about that?
Or would you just appreciate their thoughts (and acceptance of BJDs) and keep the clothes? \
No, I'd keep it all even if it means cross-dressing my dolls XD because its not really about the gifts in my terms, its the thought that counts for me, wrong size, wrong style, I'd love it

 

I would love to get BJD clothes as a gift. I'm pretty sure that I would almost burst into tears or something. That would definitely mean that someone really thinks that my hobby is okay and stuff. It wouldn't matter if the clothes weren't the right size or colour or style. I would propably still keep then for future use maybe. Of course I would love to choose them myself but still. That really would be awesome. I've never had any doll clothes as a gift.

 

I'd be really thankful. If it was the wrong style, I could maybe spruce it up a bit to make it fit my doll better. If it was the wrong size, I'd tell them. Then I'd probably sell it and use the money to buy an outfit that does fit

 

I would love it if someone I knew wanted to buy me clothes for my dolls! My sis and I are a bit lucky in that since we are both in the hobby, one of us could be used as a reference to others about what to get or where to get it from.

On the other hand, one of our 'traditions' so to speak, is making a list of a collection of various things we'd like for a gift as our birthday gets close (movies, cds, etc), and now with our interest in the hobby we've added a section of doll things. So in that way, others know the price/item number we want and where to get it from. It might take away the surprise a little, but you still don't know what from the list you will get or if they were inspired to get something else that is similar. I'd even go so far as to adding what the measurements of my doll is so that if they find an outfit they might think I like they can see if it would fit.

 

This is an Age Old problem with ANY gift, isn't it?

Gift of clothes for you that doesn't fit or suit your taste. That old sweater from someone or other. The weird item. The not-exactly right thing.

Some people aren't sentimental about it and exchange it if they can. It's very common.

But one should ALWAYS be grateful and thankful and happy, no matter what. It IS a gift, after all. You're getting if for free. It's not an obligation on their part. They do it because they want to give you something!

... for myself, I guess it would depend on the item, if I'd sell it or not. I'd definitely try and keep it around if I could use it, even if I didn't quite care for it so much... I wouldn't immediately do anything. I'd be nice and happy and grateful and try to show it on a doll if I could...

 

I`d appreciate it, especially if the clothes suited well. It`s quite an expensive gift, actually)

 

I love surprises, and I love getting gifts for people... more than I like receiving things myself. I'm sure If you mom is getting clothes for your dolls, she probably found a way to find out the measurements of them and did her best to find something that fits well. She might surprise you, and hopefully you'll like the clothes anyhow. ^^

 

How would you feel if your parents, or friends got you BJD clothes but they know nothing about BJDs. They could get you the wrong size, or the wrong style! I'd still be happy that they not just thought about me but my dolls too

Do you prefer for them to just let you pick out all the clothes? (That's what I wanted them to do, I said that I wanted to pick them out.) I'd be happy if they asked me to pick them out but I also like surprises

Would you return it? Regardless of how they'd feel about that? no I wouldn't.

Or would you just appreciate their thoughts (and acceptance of BJDs) and keep the clothes? I'd keep them!

 

I'd be beyond happy!

But, my doll is easy to buy for (as will his sister be), they fit just about any 'fashion doll' clothes you can find in the stores, and my friends & parents all know that.

If the clothes didn't suit my doll, size or style wise, I'd still hold on to them in case of a future doll.

Of course if I loved the style, but the size was wrong, I would just tell them - "I love it, but it's too small! D:" and they would probably suggest we exchange for a bigger size. -shrug-

 

I'd be pretty happy about it. I have actually asked for such, but to no avail. Mums worries about getting wrong size, and other people just think I'm weird and would take enjoyment out of getting me something else. I've even given these people lists with the exact items I'd like but they're like "No... how about something else?". (For mums it's more of a money issue too, bjd clothes can be pricey, she does try to support the hobby though.)

For me, I'm working to get at least one doll of each size bracket, so the getting the wrong size wouldn't be as much of an issue- someone in the house could wear it. If someone couldn't fit, I guess that means I have to get someone that could. lol

 

I'd love it if someone bought me clothes for my BJD's.