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Transgender/intergender dolls?

Jan 7, 2014

    1. I have a couple dolls with different gender identities. One of them is biologically male, but he is not masculine at all (lacks male hormones, so I guess that makes him intersex). People often think he is a girl, so he just lets them think that. As a result, he's pretty gender fluid. He has a feminine body type, so currently he's on a flat-chested female body. I'm sort of hoping to get him a male chest in the future, and at least see if that works better for him.

      Another doll of mine was supposed to be male, but has ended up on a female body. It's the body he came with, it suits him well and poses very nicely... it's the best option I've got for him, but it's hard to use male pronouns when he looks like a girl, has breasts, and dresses effeminately :sweat I'm waiting for the company he's from to release a flat chest option for him too. Then he can keep his pretty body, but without the boobs. The character isn't supposed to be transgender, but it kinda seems like he's a transman or something simply because of the body he's on.
       
    2. I don't know if you've seen it but there are actually several threads about crossdressing and your dolls.
      Crossdressing and sexuality don't actually have anything to do with gender identity.

      http://www.denofangels.com/forums/showthread.php?164156-Dolly-Cross-Dressing&highlight=crossdress

      http://www.denofangels.com/forums/s...sing-the-gender-spectrum&highlight=crossdress

      This is my girl Morgan

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    3. eleniel I hadn't seen those threads or searched for them - to me my dolls are just dolls rather than real characters with gender identity or sexuality (which also have nothing to do with each other) - my dolls don't really have a preference either way of course, but I do find it strange when people want to simply swap one set of stereotypical clothes/behaviours for another - All stereotypes are oppressive and limiting, so I would like to think that dolls (and people) can be individuals, with their gender (by birth or assumed) an irrelevance to their style or behaviour.
       
    4. I do! I have a gender queer boy, Salem, he's a dream or doll Luke and he's probably borderline female to male transgender but, yeah I love him, he's my handsome, awesome little mod project and my grail doll. Salem is a character from a series of stories that I have written/am writing.
       
    5. Of course stereotyping is oppressive and I think it's obvious that inanimate objects have neither sexuality nor gender identity. However as this thread focuses on the depiction of gender identity via dolls, a discussion on the reasons for cross dressing and whether that is bad or not isn't really on topic here. I provided the links because those threads are a more appropriate place for discussion of whether or not it is right or wrong to depict cross dressing and the reasons for and against the stereotypical way it is often done.

      Back on the topic of this thread, I agree that a dolls (or character's, person's, etc) being shouldn't revolve around their gender identity (or sexuality). For this reason I don't generally disclose Morgan's trans status. As a doll I stylize her and dress her in clothing that appeals to me. Her worth to me as a character is much greater than just her gender identity.
       
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    6. Edtel: Rachel is very pretty! I'm glad you're doing research :3 It's sad you're not Swedish; then I would have got tons of links to send you. I'm pretty educated about trans* questions (even though I don't identify as trans* myself, but I know a lot of people who do) so if you have any questions, feel free to PM me!

      CloakedSchemer: It's sad you don't have them anymore :( They sound like lovely dolls! Do you have any pictures of them?

      solitary agent: I see, that makes sense. It's too bad English language doesn't really have a gender neutral pronoun yet :/

      Akatsuki: Do you have a picture of him? :3

      Yukamina: I can understand your difficulties with the pronoun. After all we are raised to label everyone we see. I would love to see pictures of them!

      eleniel: Wow! Morgan is so, so pretty!

      Sephy_Kiriyama: Can I see a picture? :)

       
    7. dancing skeleton: Yes, I especially fall into pronoun use issues when talking to people about my dolls or characters. It's easy to use the correct pronoun in my head, but not when I'm talking to my sister who doesn't get that sort of thing and just sees a pretty girl doll. Since you ask, here's my gender fluid boy, Suna :)
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      Suna by Yukamina, on Flickr
       
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    8. Funny thing, I hardly ever think about the gender topic as such, neither with people nor with dolls (I know a few trans* people (both mtf and ftm) and I'm one of the few who doesn't give a rat's behind about physical appearance vs actual gender). Maybe my Katie counts as genderfluid - she dresses pretty boyish most of the time, denims and hoodies and stuff. For concerts (she's a violin student) she goes a little more "girly-pretty".
      I don't have any trans* dolls, nor am I currently planning any. I guess I'm on the fluid side myself so hey, whatever floats your boat :)

      edit, this is her (the only decent pic I have of her in her typical clothes on her current body):
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    9. dancing skeleton: I don't believe I have any pictures of Leander anymore, and I know I don't of Blue (he was off topic anyway), but here is what Sixx looked like:

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    10. Yukamina: Aw, Suna's very pretty :3 I can relate to that; I'm planning for an intergender doll at the moment and I use this gender neutral pronoun (zie) which is quite hard to get used to. I know a few people who uses it in real life and I've a hard time with it then, too. I wish I had grown up with it so that it would have been easier.

      Jany: I would say she's more of a tomboy. Trans* is more about gender and less about clothes. She's very pretty though!

      CloakedSchemer: Sixx looked really cool!
       
    11. dancing skeleton - I haven't gotten a lot of pictures of him yet, since he hasn't got a face-up or the mod I want for him, but I did get a simple picture of his face. :)
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    12. ...Just throwing in my support as a trans BJD lover for those of you who create characters like this. I appreciate the consideration that people give to the subject/concept. There are all flavors of trans-folk, I guess, and I'd like to point out that. As well as... that it's totally okay that people want to make up a character like this, and I feel kind of bad hearing people worried they are going to offend. (even if it's a real concern, and yeah, some people worry a whole lot about accurate portrayal and will be irked by inaccurate portrayals or something that shows the subject in any certain 'light'.) Well.... I think it's awesome that you're fleshing out a thoughtful character that came from the heart, and a character who has an interesting (and possibly quite emotional and personal) story to be told. I'm not from the school of thought where 'those who haven't been through it could never understand'... I believe people in general have potentially a whole lot of compassion, ability to empathize and can be intuitive and understanding. And heck, if you write something about your transgender or intergender character and your writing ends up speaking to someone who really is moved by it, or like.. just hearing you talk about it makes them feel they aren't alone, that's just great. DO make your trans characters and enjoy them. ...also, I really personally do not care if the central idea of a character is them being trans or whatever. I don't think its 'not a good enough reason' to make up a character... and while yeah, you might see it as more of a 'starting point' or realistically, you might say, it 'should' be just one of many aspects of who that character is... Yeah, I appreciate when someone works hard to make a realistic character and be fair in their portrayal, but honestly, sometimes people just make things up to have fun/express something or they want to mull over the concept or whatever... my sentiment is "so what?". I don't find that offensive. I've made up characters on a whim especially for role playing purposes whose character revolved around a much, much smaller concept than the idea of being trans, and the whole.. psychology of the character just completely not really thought out or anything... like when you make an NPC in role-play or like tabletop games to demonstrate something or to fill a specific role... nobody ever asks, you know, why didn't the writers of this fantasy action video game give the minor character running the item shop a childhood!? I'm saying... I have no reason to give people the heat because they want a character to be trans. Obviously, if they're using that doll/character to try and spread stigma and loathing and cause headaches for transfolk, sure, that's worth getting mad over, but I appreciate that people are bothering with the subject to begin with, cause heaven knows, I've thrown my hands up in the air. As a FTM, ("gay" FTM... I use quotation marks for my own reasons... using quotations to refer to a FTM as gay is not what you should do. I'm quirky, and relatively confusing, and I'm kind of not sorry about it either.) the subject of trans-awareness, acceptance... umm.. just the subject of what the 'general stereotype' is... worrying about portrayal... that whole... big.... subject gives me a huge headache. There are so many people with their different ideas about how gender identity, intersexed, LBGT all that stuff is supposed to be portrayed. The more you know about the subject, the more you----- and I think some fellow 'LGBT' folks would laugh and nod,--- realize, sometimes you can't even please the LGBT people, let alone the rest of the world! If you want to go ahead and try and portray something in a positive light, and make the world approve, that's fine, but realise, you've got people on the inside who will still disagree. People disagree over many things surrounding Transsexuals and relevant subjects. Like I said, you might not get the approval of every single person under that LGBT umbrella.. Sometimes, you're lucky if you can even get the L! ;) ...at some point, you've got to just do what makes you happy. Regardless of the big, raging, opinionated world... And perhaps, that sentiment right there is very much in the spirit of 'transgender pride' after all.

      Ah, I had a YOSD who, in my head, was going to be a male... then she got here, and I slowly decided had NO gender... Now she has been passed on to my good friend, who decided she was female. Not sure if that counts, but the character I imagined was definitely between genders. She's shaped like a fantasy creature which makes it all a bit umm.. questionable I guess, since it's not the idea of a human being who considers themselves in-between genders.. it's the idea of a fantasy dragon who appears to be more masculine than not but definitely feels and is physically neither... with am impish little feminine personality on the side. Eh, even I can't say if or not that "counts"? The doll is a female now in her new home, though, and my friend's imagination has created a new character for that doll... I felt that I wasn't going anywhere with that character, that it was a mistake to make up a character after buying the doll, and that it's more my thing to 'shell' a character I've already come to know and love. Plus, I just knew the doll would be better loved in her new home where she's spoiled now.
       
    13. I have a ftm doll I am currently working on, Akira; I plan on buying him a female body because he is supposed to be in early stages of transitioning. Right now he's currently borrowing my Jun Tachibana's body because I wanted to test how the proportions would work out.

      Aki's boyfriend is gender fluid, though he tends to present male.
       
    14. I have way in the future plans to customize an ftm trans* doll, but it'll be a while before that happens. His name is Jason, and I've got a mostly complete personality and backstory in my head for him but, well, moneyyyy. XD It's really cool that I'm not the only one interested in doing this, though. I never thought I'd find a thread about the topic.
       
    15. Akatsuki: He's beautiful! I hope I'll get to see him when he's done.

      KingOfChains: The text of yours was really interesting. I experienced a similar situation before the Christmas holidays where my Swedish teacher told my class that this writer was coming to visit next semester, and then he talked about this book about a lesbian girl she written and one of my class mates reacted and asked if the writer was gay. My teacher said he didn't know and my class mate said that if she wasn't gay herself she could impossibly write about such a thing. That's not true. That's a way for society to separate people from each other, as if being gay or being trans* or just LGBTQ in general would turn you into this alien impossible for the "normal" people to understand. Empathy isn't always based on experience. We've got to fight for things together no matter of color, religion, gender and sexuality and not divide ourselves into "us" and "them", because when was the last time that ended up any good? And for your doll; I was thinking about that when I created the thread. That there's most likely tons of dolls with fluid or unknown genders out there because they're fantasy sculpts.

      Kitazawa: That sounds cool! Can I see a picture? :3

      Samletbird: If you get him I would love to see him! I can relate to your money-problem! I'm planning for two dolls and is going to buy a limited edition kind of impulsive, and I have no idea how I'm going to make it all work out haha.
       
    16. dancing skeleton: I will definitely post many pictures of him when the day eventually comes. The more I think about him the more I think I'd like to bump him up a little higher on my wishlist. [Not that it has any effect on my funds XD] But good luck with your purchases dude! I'm sure you'll make it work out somehow.
       
    17. dancing skeleton: I didn't have any of them together (or Aki at all) yet, so I took some for you :)

      I want to get Yamato some more feminine clothes eventually, but I pretty much fail at making that sort of thing >___>; And he's not really a gothic lolita type (e.g. what bjd clothing made for cross dressing generally caters toward). And I also need to redo Aki's faceup. He inherited his head from another of my dolls and it still has the old faceup ^^;--but here they are as of now:

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      (Yamato is the one with pink hair . . . )


      And here is Aki by himself, in case you were interested in how the Jun's SDGr body works for him. He's got a bit of gauze wrapped around the chest under the loose shirt:

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      (Ignore Yasuo in the background, he's not relevant to this thread XD)

      And from the side:

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      The body I'm planning on from him has a similar chest size, as well as I can judge from photos. So this was a good test for him :)
       
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    18. My LLoyd is now a girl... I just could not see "him" as a boy at all. But the first thing people say when they pick her up is "she has a penis!" I guess cause when you pick up a YOSD you kind of put your thumb on the lower waist.. At least that's how I do it :sweat
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    19. Aww! I love seeing everyone's photos!
       
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    20. Kitazawa: Thank you for taking the photos! Both of your dolls are very pretty :) I like how Aki's body looks on him! :3

      Uaiiko: People do have a hard time understanding trans* issues, but it really doesn't matter what other people say. I would never have guessed she got a penis, haha.

      Anneko: Me too!