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When browsing dolls, do you gravitate towards ones that look similar you?

Jan 26, 2017

    1. I get or I dream to get simply dolls that I like. And at some point l have realised that they do look, no, not like me, but like members of my family. If they catch on it too I will have some explaining to do. Hopefully I can just play dumb and say it’s a coincidence as they are beautiful and the doll is beautiful so they have something in common because of that. Fingers crossed they don’t even notice.
       
    2. I have zero interest in purchasing a doll that looks like me. However, the first thing my sister said on seeing my Maskcat Ronia (she was dressed in an oversize sweater + dress and was wearing a long golden-brown wig parted in the middle) was "That's you in doll form!!" :XD:

      The resemblance was based on basic features (round face, short nose, large eyes) plus the long hair and sweater (I tend to wear baggy clothes) and I can see it, but I had absolutely never considered it before. And I am not going to make any use of it, because she's her own character and I'm not drawn to "mini me" designs. But it was funny!
       
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    3. I've not seen a doll with features like mine, nor would I think I'd be too interested as I like things with as far of a contrast as possible to myself, though as a funny aside, when I told my friend last month I was thinking about dipping into this hobby and showed him the WIP of my first doll, he said he had a big nose like me, lol.
       
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    4. I don't really tend to purchase dolls that look like me, especially since I tend to lean more to fantasy dolls, but I definitely dress them in clothes I like! I don't tend to think "oh the doll would look nice in this" when browsing outfits or accessories, I tend to just look at things I personally would wear and enjoy jn real life.
       
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    5. Absolutely not lol. I do think I end up with dolls that conform to similar tastes and end up looking similar to each other, but they don't look like me. I mainly collect girl dolls and even the male characters I want to shell as dolls lean more feminine in appearance. I don't really look for realistic dolls either, I prefer stylized semi realism for resin and anime for vinyl, so it would be hard to find a doll in that range that looks like me I think!

      The only similar trait I consistently go for is dolls that have a shorter body type, not necessarily short for their scale, but I don't go for dolls that have those long lanky model legs and long torsos. And in real life I am very short!
       
    6. Interestingly, when I had smaller boobs, I tended toward dolls with small to medium sized chests—now I just buy whatever suits the character, and/or whichever is sculpted the prettiest. Some companies’ small busts are very detailed, and show some of the sternum/pectoral muscles/ribs in a way the larger busts obscure, and then I’m usually going to go with small. Still, I have more and more characters who need larger-chested options, now that medication side-effects have endowed me with DD’s (best side effect I’ve ever had!) The two dolls whose characters are the most self-inserty have very opposite proportions—vidania is short, and has a supia ballerina small bust on, which is very small, and Val is ~70cm, on a modded soom supergem with longer legs, and he has a fairly large bust (which might get bigger if I pick up the parts for that mod!). Vidania represents me when I was 21 and struggling, and Val represents my ideal gender/presentation.

      Face-wise, I have a fairly young looking face. As I’ve gotten older, my bone structure has come out a little more, but in the right makeup, I could pass for 18 while I’m 26. That’s not the kind of face I prefer. I like really defined faces, without that kind of softness, which is why I’ve taken so many male sculpts to make girls out of. Val is ironically an exception—he has a younger looking sculpt, because I direly wanted a split-tongue for him and that narrowed my options, so his face, under the heavy makeup, is accidentally a little like mine.
       
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    7. I dunno, I tend to pick dolls that look similar to people whose features I like. My favorite sculpt of all time is Simply Divine’s Thomas with IOS Anima being a close second. I actually frequently get told a lot of my dolls look like me. I guess it’s because I tend to dress in a very ethereal goth way in real life.
      But thruthfully my dolls don’t really share much of my style at all because I can’t find doll clothes that really reflect the style that I like and I don’t really sew all thay much anymore so making them isn’t something I feel up to. I’m also heavily tattooed on both my arms and none of my dolls have any tattoos at all which is quite funny as I see my tattoos as a very important part of me. But in short I wouldn’t say that I pick dolls that look like me but I do tend to pick them based on things I like.
       
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    8. I mostly collect SD boys and have a very feminine face so I naturally look for dolls with very different faces from my own. I only have three girls so there's not enough to really identify a pattern there; one has similar features to me but the other two are pretty different. I think my verdict would be I typically avoid features like my own, but it's definitely not an active choice.

      I will say, however, that I do have one doll that I'm styling very similarly to myself even if her face is quite different. I like black clothes and tattoos too much not to give them to at least one doll!
       
    9. Nah, not at all!

      I'm a woman who only collects male dolls, and they tend to fall into either the anime or semi-realistic-anime categories.

      I do have a couple who are currently wearing outfits almost identical to certain outfits I have, though, so that's something I guess ahaha. But that's mostly because I like to dress my guys in cute, comfy, casual sorta clothes, and that's generally my own look as well.
      . . . If I still had my super short haircut from my mid–late 20s, I might look a bit like a couple of them!
       
    10. I live in my head so much I am barely aware of the fact I am a living person with a body and not just some floating consciousness. I also can't stand to think of or read any self-insert stories. So no, absolutely not.

      But I am content to obsess over fictional characters original or otherwise and their relationships with each other. The characters in my mind have always gravitated towards fantasy live-action so I choose realistic doll sculpts for them. They are tall with vibrant personalities and idealistic proportions whereas I am a plain and petite person.